Archive for December, 2011

New Year’s Resolutions for Better Co-Parenting

As the New Year approaches, it is a good time to start new habits and dismiss some old unneeded ones.  If you have been involved in a custody case in the past few years and are now attempting to co-parent, it is also a good time to reevaluate the process of co-parenting, formulate new habits and eliminate some not so healthy behaviors.  The following are suggestions to improve your own co-parenting regardless of whether you are involved in a Nevada child custody case or not in the upcoming year.

1.   Resolve not to disparage the other parent in the presence of your children.

2.   Make a habit of not discussing any ongoing litigation involving you and the other parent.

3.   Enroll in co-parenting classes and attempt to learn new techniques for better co-parenting.

4.   Set a goal to keep the other parent better informed about your children when they are in your care and included on your children’s important activities.

5.    Make a point and habit of keeping a journal to record your parenting concerns, visitation and other contact with the child.

6.    Be polite to your child’s other parent and attempt to work with them and not against them.

7.    Have a cooperative spirit in making needed changes to the visitation schedule.

8.   Allow the other parent to participate in decision making and listen to their opinions.

9.   Encourage your children to have free contact by phone when in your care with the other parent.

10.   Attempt to mediate or work with a parenting coordinator before filing a contested action to resolve issues.

These are just a few suggestions to hopefully help each of co-parent better and more effectively in the upcoming year.

This article is not meant to be all-inclusive or a substitute for legal advice from a licensed attorney in your own jurisdiction.  If you are involved in a legal matter and have questions, you should contact a competent attorney in your own jurisdiction.

K. Beth Luna, Esq. is licensed in Tennessee, Florida and Nevada.  The information provided is based upon Nevada law only.  If you are looking for information for another jurisdiction, please contact an attorney in that area.  The Luna Law Firm handles annulment matters on a regular basis in the Reno, Carson, Nevada area.  We also represent individuals in Yerington, Minden, Fernley and Fallon, Nevada.

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Whether or not to hire an attorney in a Nevada divorce or child custody case

Child custody and divorce cases can be complicated legal matters.  A question I hear frequently from potential clients is, “Should I hire an attorney?”  The decision to hire an attorney is always up to the individual.  There are certainly a lot of factors to consider in that decision, two of which include the complexity of the case and if the other side has counsel.  The American Bar Association recently conducted a study of Judges around the nation on their opinions as to individuals proceeding without counsel.  Those statistics may give some indication on the need for counsel and the impact of not having counsel in a divorce or child custody case in Nevada.

62 percent of the Judges interviewed viewed the outcomes for non-represented litigants as being worse. 37 percent of the Judges felt there was no impact.  When asked about the range of problems pro per’ litigants had without counsel, problems included failure to present necessary evidence, procedural mistakes, failure to effectively examine witnesses or make proper objections, and poor arguments.  The ABA Coalition of Justice, report on the Survey of Judges on the Impact of Economic Downturn on Representation in the Courts.  View more information on the AMA Report.

While finances are tight for most families, if the decision is made to hire an attorney, there may be options to help afford the cost of representation.  This can include looking for an attorney who provides payment plans or doing some of the work yourself to reduce your fees. As the survey indicates, representation in court can make a difference.  If you cannot afford an attorney for the entire case, you may wish to only hire an attorney to represent you for court appearances.  This option should be discussed beforehand with counsel to ensure your best options as there are timelines to provide evidence, witnesses and documents to the other side and Court.  Those timelines, if missed, can result in evidence and witnesses being excluded.  In addition, if an individual drafts their own paperwork, they must be sure to properly plead all items as this can result in loss of defenses or arguments if not properly pled.

Before hiring any attorney, one should take steps to insure that it is the right fit.  The American Bar Association provides information on a Hiring an Attorney which may be helpful to review.

Not every individual needs, requires or wants an attorney.  Before making the decision to hire or not hire, it is vital to educate yourself on the pros, cons, and what to look for in counsel.

This article is not meant to be all-inclusive or a substitute for legal advice from a licensed attorney in your own jurisdiction.  If you are involved in a legal matter and have questions, you should contact a competent attorney in your own jurisdiction.

K. Beth Luna, Esq. is licensed in Tennessee, Florida and Nevada.  The information provided is based upon Nevada law only.  If you are looking for information for another jurisdiction, please contact an attorney in that area.  The Luna Law Firm handles annulment matters on a regular basis in the Reno, Carson, Nevada area.  We also represent individuals in Yerington, Minden, Fernley and Fallon, Nevada.

Please be advised that the above post or any other post on this website is not meant to be legal advice or create an attorney-client relationship with Luna Law Firm, PC. If you are interested in retaining counsel, we are happy to set a consultation. Consultations may be set by calling 775-686-2490.

View our weekly legal articles by The Luna Law FirmFamily Law Blog. View a full listing of The Luna Law Firm Areas of Practice

Contact the Luna Law Firm today 775-686-2490 to schedule a consultation to discuss your Nevada family law matter.